Contact Information
Meridith Lucius, M.A
Project Director
Campus Center 309
Tiffin, OH 44883
419-448-2067
Survivors of sexual assault may have a range of emotional, physical, and mental reactions to the trauma of being sexually assaulted, including not having any reaction at all. It is imperative to understand that each survivor will respond and react to the trauma in a different way. Regardless of how long ago the assault was committed, survivors of sexual assault may experience some of the following:
These are just a few of the reactions a person may have. They are not unique to sexual assault; anyone in crisis may show some of these behaviors. As a friend, you are a good judge of what emotions and behaviors are common for your friend. If your friend begins to act in an atypical manner for no apparent reason, don’t be afraid to ask directly what is wrong. You may be the first person to respond to your friend’s problem and, for a victim of sexual assault, this is the starting point of recovery.
Whatever the status and make-up of the relationship, there are feelings and reactions commonly experienced by the significant other of someone who has survived sexual assault. You are not alone.
The important thing to remember is that these feelings need to be recognized and addressed by both you and your partner, so as not to create further distress in an already traumatic situation. Stoner Health & Counseling Center can help. For more information or to schedule an appointment, please call (419)448-2041.
There is no prescribed method of healing from sexual assault because each person's experience will vary. Healing takes time and begins with compassionate support from loved ones and friends. Here are some strategies that you may find useful in helping your friend recover from sexual trauma.
Below are helpful phrases that you can use to empower a survivor of sexual assault or encourage your friend to talk:
Actions and phrases to avoid when helping a survivor of sexual assault:
Campus Center 309
Tiffin, OH 44883